During the tragic loss of our only child in an auto
accident on March 13, 2002, we never dreamed that one day we would say that we had lived a year without him. We didn't think life could possibly go on. But, God has shown us that He is faithful to His word. He has given us hope as we have held on to our son, and as we have tried to let him go. He has given us hope as we, his parents, tried not to live, yet had to live..
Picture a young teen, full of promise for the future, who loved life
and lived each moment as if it were his last. Picture a teen whose
High School graduation was only two months away. Picture a teen whose
ambition was to be an engineer with plans already in place to attend
the University of Kentucky. This was Tyler..
Well known for his smile and "skip", Tyler was always happy.
His joy not only radiated from his smile, but he walked with such a
bounce that it appeared as if he were skipping. People of all ages
were drawn to him like a magnet because he sincerely loved people.
The most contentment he found was to be with someone, anyone!
Tyler saw no difference in people..
Tyler was an encourager. His positive attitude was contagious, and
his zest for life spilled out to everyone around him. He was a
beloved soulmate to his dearest friends. He loved having his friends
come and go as if our home was their home. And, as parents, we were
delighted with our identity as, "Tyler's Mom and Dad".
At the age of three, Tyler fell in love with four-wheelers and got
his first one when he was four. "Riding the trails" was his
lifelong passion, especially if he had someone to ride with him.
He also enjoyed video games, fishing, camping, and hunting, but he
wasn't content unless he was sharing these with a friend. So, it
is obvious that his favorite past time was hanging out with his
friends. We believe he continues to do this in spirit..
At the end of this first year without Tyler, we are still frightened
beyond words to think that a future without him continues to be our
plight. Each holiday, birthday, and anniversary date serves as a
reminder of what we had and what we have so tragically lost.
Part of us died when we were told that Tyler was gone. Our hearts were
ripped from us leaving us with an enormous emptiness. Not only was
Tyler our only child, he was also our best friend, and our reason
for living. Our sweet and beautiful boy who captured our hearts and
brightened our lives for sixteen and a half years is gone!! We have
never before encountered such a crisis and challenge as the struggle
to get through each day continues. The passion to see, touch, and
hear him again is heart rending. Yet, unable to fully comprehend
what has happened, we go on. We wait with hope
We ache with hope
We hold on with hope
We let go with hope
Cause we believe.. |