John was a vibrant young man who was at the "top of his game". He played drums with the South Forsyth Marching War Eagles Band and Concert Band, Cross Country track, and had been training for Spring Track the afternoon of his accident. In addition he enjoyed working in Children's Church at First Baptist Church Cumming. Then everything changed.

I had paid for John to have Driver's Education at Gainesville College the summer before he got his license in August. He wasn't out after curfew, no alcohol was involved, nor was he speeding, and he was wearing his seat belt. He was only about 2 miles from school. John was doing everything "right" but was tired and ready to get home after track. How many times do we as adults feel the same way after a day at work? Accidents happen. John came to a "rolling stop" was what the officer said. His little Ford Tempo without air bags (they didn't have them for that model year) couldn't stand up against the Chevy Surburban.

He lived less than 36 hours after the accident, but John was also an organ donor so in a way, he lived(s) through others. On Valentine's Day 1998, John gave the gift of life. A man received his heart and one kidney, and another lady received his liver. John literally gave his heart away on Valentine's Day. His death has changed the lives of many people.

Without God, my family and friends I could not have made it nor could I continue. Never in a millions years did I think this would happen to me. I learned never to take life for granted. Oh how I would love to hear hm say again "mom I need a hug'--but someday I will.